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Xiaoying 'Sharon' Qi

LPCC

Xiaoying 'Sharon' Qi , LPCC

Therapist in California

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About Xiaoying

Xiaoying 'Sharon' Qi is a licensed professional clinical counselor in California. She brings seven years of counseling experience and a steady, practical approach to helping people manage stress, anxiety, and life transitions.

Sharon focuses on everyday struggles like parenting strain, career setbacks, low self-esteem, and motivation. She also works with issues such as ADHD, addiction concerns, grief, trauma, sleeping and eating problems, and relationship difficulties. Her work includes supporting people facing burnout and compassion fatigue as well as those coping with chronic illness or caregiver stress.

Her style is responsive and plainspoken. She listens first, then shapes sessions around each person's needs and goals. Conversations tend to be collaborative and goal-oriented, with a mix of skill-building and space to process emotions.

Sharon uses practical tools from evidence-informed approaches to help people change unhelpful patterns, manage intense feelings, and act toward what matters to them. She pays attention to attachment or abandonment issues, body image concerns, and communication problems when those themes come up.

Sessions are offered in English and Mandarin and can include conversation-focused work or brief coaching to tackle a specific problem. She helps people set small, doable steps and checks progress each week so plans stay realistic and relevant.

Therapeutic tools and online support

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thoughts without getting stuck in them and encourages action toward personal values; it can be useful for anxiety, stress, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and changing behaviors with practical exercises, which often helps with mood, sleep, and motivation. Emotionally-Focused Therapy centers on understanding and expressing important emotions to improve relationships and intimacy.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan based on progress and feedback.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy fit into busy lives. Video lets people read facial cues during deeper conversations, phone calls are useful when bandwidth or camera use is limited, and chat or messaging supports brief check-ins or ongoing coaching between sessions. These options help people keep therapy consistent around work, caregiving, or changing schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Sharon commonly address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, parenting challenges, career struggles, and self-esteem issues. Other areas include ADHD, addictions, grief, trauma, relationship problems, and coping with life changes.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her approach is collaborative and down-to-earth. Sessions mix listening, skill practice, and short-term coaching to meet practical goals.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of professional counseling experience working with a range of concerns across medical and community settings.

What credentials and location apply to this therapist?

She holds the LPCC credential and practices in California as a CA LPCC.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Mandarin.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can be done by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How are costs handled for sessions?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesADHD

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English, Mandarin

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