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Xochitl Perez

LCSW

Xochitl Perez , LCSW

Therapist in California

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About Xochitl

Xochitl Perez is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in California with 15 years of experience. She focuses on practical help for people facing stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Her work often centers on women's issues alongside body image, self-esteem, and coping with major life changes.

She approaches sessions as a collaborative space where the client’s own knowledge matters. Xochitl listens for strengths and small steps that can be built on. She encourages clients to try manageable changes and to notice what works in day-to-day life.

In sessions she helps people talk through panic attacks, social anxiety, and mood concerns. She also addresses attachment-related worries and problems that come after abuse or traumatic events. Conversations aim to make hard problems feel clearer and more manageable.

Xochitl supports people navigating shifts in relationships, work, or identity. She focuses on building self-love and confidence alongside practical coping skills. The intent is to leave each session with one or two things to try before the next visit.

Her background in social work means she blends practical problem solving with emotional support. Sessions are straightforward and goal-oriented, while also allowing space for processing difficult feelings. People who want calm, steady guidance and clear next steps may find this approach helpful.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Xochitl uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on symptoms and daily challenges. One common approach she applies involves practical coping skills to manage anxiety and panic; this means learning short breathing and grounding exercises and testing them in real situations. Another emphasis is on building self-esteem and body image through reflective work and behavioral experiments that help shift self-talk and daily habits.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will ask about goals, what has helped before, and what feels realistic to try. Together they will adjust methods over time so the approach fits the client’s needs and personal pace.

Online sessions make this work more flexible. Video calls let people practice techniques in real time while getting guidance. Phone sessions can be a lower-bandwidth alternative when speaking is enough. Live chat and text-based messaging allow for shorter check-ins, homework prompts, or quick support between sessions. These options help fit therapy into busy schedules and different daily routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Xochitl commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include attachment issues, body image, panic disorder and social anxiety.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical. Sessions aim to identify strengths, set small goals, and try doable coping strategies between meetings.

How long has she been practicing?

She has 15 years of professional experience in clinical social work and related practice settings.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in California.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. She is not accepting international clients at this time.

Which session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBody imageMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Experience

15+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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